Self-Leadership is a Root
Leadership is defined
as a broader term but the base of leadership is Self-Leadership. Leading others
is much easier, but task to achieve is leading your own self in the way you
want. We all live in stigma of delusion when it comes about our own life. Since
the day we born we are taught to see others and learn, take inspirations and
decide about life. My question is Do we need others to decide
our life? Do we need second person to inspire us. Yes, I agree we can take
suggestion but decision must be taken by our self & we can only take
decision at certain point of life when THE LEADER INSIDE US BECOMES ACTIVE.
Self-Leadership is
defined as natural skill, in some people it is suppressed & some are
blessed with it since childhood. This skill can be enhanced slowly &
gradually. Let’s understand what self-leadership is.
Self-leadership
comprises of life skills like decision making, power of taking initiatives,
thinking wisely, and leading life in forward direction. There are six main
parameters of Self Leadership I would pen down
Parameters
of Self Leadership
1.
Self-Image
2.
Problem Solving Skills
3.
Understanding Self &Others
4.
Constructive Habits
1. Self-Image –
Self Image is first step of Self leadership. HOW YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR OWN-SELF. The way we think about our self
creates our image in our mind. If we criticize, if we compare, if we think less
about our self, it makes us like inferior personality. We must believe in our
self & think positive about ourselves. Good self-image leads to great
self-confidence which is base of self-leadership. You can improve yourself
image by thinking about your qualities. We all have qualities & areas of
improvements. Focus on qualities and work on areas of improvement for good
self-image.
2. Problem Solving Skills
- Problem
Solving is a beautiful art, which helps everyone to grow mentally. Life becomes
easy when we enable ourselves to be a problem solver. We can be a great problem
solver when we start observing the problems and take them as challenge. Maximum
of the time we fight with problem and we miss the solution. Try out to be take
problem as challenge and you will see the solutions
3. Understanding Self
& Others - Understandingpeople, self &
situations is very important point of self-leadership. Many time we just see
our and behave according to our perspective. When we talk about self-leadership
we must consider others perspective as well. Simple way to understand others
perspective is to stay neutral with your thoughts and observe the situation.
Self-leadership says when we understand people and situations we lead the
present scenario with best possible ways.
4.
Constructive
Habits- Your habits define your quality of life.
It takes 21 days to develop any habit and to make it permanent consistency of
90 days is required. Constructive habits
leads to constructive life. Check your habits today are they taking your life
in forwards direction or dragging you back towards low quality living.
If you really want to
enhance your leadership skills, first bring your focus towards your SELF
LEADERSHIP
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